My 13-year old daughter's best friend pranced round my kitchen on Saturday night, fooling around, teasing me, being teased by me, and generally behaving like she was completely at home. And I was struck by the lurve...you see, her mom and I met at ante-natal classes, and our daughters were born 8 days apart. As our friendship developed, so did theirs. Sadly my friend was diagnosed with leukemia, and died just before both girls turned 7. Along with a couple of other women I have helped to mother my friend's daughter, held her when she was sad, laughed with her when she was happy, shouted at her when she made me cross, loved her, and talked to her about her own mother.
Once both girls, all popcorned and dvd'ed out, finally went to bed on Saturday night, I kissed them both goodnight, and told them both I loved them. I miss my friend so much, I wish she could see how fabulous a young lady her daugher has become. But I'm also so moved by the gift of this young lady becoming part of my family, one of my daughters. So grateful for the gift of this child's love.